19th century classic literature with its sentimentalism gave us this trope of a "wh8re with a heart of gold" and it has been poisoning the debate on "fallen women" ever since.
Now 19th century folks did have an excuse for simping. There was a lot of poverty and basically no age of consent laws. Poor families would sell their daughters into pr8stitution as young as 9 or 10 in some cases. Obviously, the children were victims in these type of situations and the pity was deserved. There was also little in the way of workplace harassment prevention and some poor governess or a maidservant or a circus girl without social status or connections could be easily seduced and often pressured into s8xual relations with her male employer. Some chose it out of their own free will, of course, but the consequences, such as pregnancy could cost her her reputation and employment opportunities, with pr8stitution as the only way out.
Now this all is in the past. We have laws protecting women and children. Sometimes these laws go so far as disadvantaging men, like workplace harassment rules in some countries.
OnlyF8ns "girls" aren't pressured into anything, they consider themselves "models" and entrepreneurs. They freely choose to degrade themselves online for money. They engage in wh8redom because it's an easy way to earn, unlike some boring office job, taking care of unruly kids at school or changing bedpans in the hospital. These types of employment aren't really glamorous, but it's an honest way to make a living nonetheless.
These girls also aren't in danger of starvation because nowadays if you don't want to/can't work you can easily get some welfare. Hence, again, it's their free choice.
They deserve absolutely no pity and yes, they should be shamed for it. Women who defend them online basically defend harl8try and come across as lacking any sort of morals. You know the type who cheats on her boyfriend and then expects him to raise her baby as his own.
Men who sign up for these services are losers, and those who defend it are simps. Seriously, she isn't a damsel in distress, she is someone who sells pictures of her b8888ole to guys for money.
It's really embarrassing.
So what is the solution here? I don't think banning porn does anything productive and I'd rather law enforcement round up real criminals like thieves, rapist, pedophiles, and such. Few to none of these women will settle for any guy that simply has a job and is drug free and not any database they are not supposed to be in. And the women look dumb offering themselves for $4.95 per month along with the simps who are paying when porn is practically free online.
ReplyDeleteThe other issue is that the Christians have nothing to offer young men and I can say they never offered me anything other than dogmatic stupidity regarding human sexuality. The churches are also filled with women who have the same idiotic expectations from men as their secular sisters. You can pull up some videos by Aaron Clarey discussing this stuff.
I'm an agnostic, but okay with some of the sex stuff being kept more discrete. An exploration of the Internet Archive finds "men's magazine" content that was even earlier than Playboy. This has always been with us, it's just a matter of how puritan a society wants to be about it. I suspect even in years past not every Christian was a virgin.
Just like the poor, the wh8res will always be with us. But pr8stitution should not be made into something glorious, the way OnlySl8ts are doing it. Yes, I would absolutely forbid it. P8rn does a number on men, too, just check this website:
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The solution in a normal society would obviously be early marriage. But men had always been allowed to "sow wild oats" to some degree. Modern churches basically turned old morals upside down. Men are shamed while women are told it's never their fault. Men's honour is courage, women's honour is chastity. But we live in a dishonour society nowadays.
So the churches just follow the spirit of the age, like they always have done, unfortunately.
More from the 'women are oppressed' in the West and more mature.
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