I remember reading about an old man once who made it well into his hundreds. When asked about his secret, he said: "I never smoked, drank or lied."
So my advice to you is, don't lie to your husband. Don't conceal stuff from him. Don't do things behind his back which you know he disapproves of. Marriage should be based on trust and good communication. Marriage can't be based on lies. Nothing good will ever come out of it.
It doesn't mean that you have to share all your thoughts with him, though. If you hate his mother, you don't need to tell it to him every single day. Have some discretion;)...
A woman who weaponizes sex with her husband has no business and no right to expect her husband to be faithful.
ReplyDeleteWhat does s8x have to do with the topic of this post?
ReplyDeleteThe very title of this post, "How to Have A Good Marriage" is what s8x has to do with it.
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ReplyDeleteOnce again for those with reading comprehension problems: what has s8x specifically to do with the topic of a wife lying to her husband (not cheating on him)? Or is s8x just something you want to talk/think about all the time? Talking about it doesn't really help, you know;)
ReplyDeleteI mean there must be ways to get it even for American men...
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