tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post5626663813498711155..comments2024-03-28T05:57:41.542-07:00Comments on Adventures In Keeping House: The Reasons For DivorceSannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-21880426536106736002016-01-12T09:56:12.992-08:002016-01-12T09:56:12.992-08:00Better late than never but better never late!Better late than never but better never late!Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-83647764967430585212016-01-12T09:06:13.222-08:002016-01-12T09:06:13.222-08:00Yes I understand who you mean. But it suddenly cro...Yes I understand who you mean. But it suddenly crossed my mind that I know certain families who divorced and repented for this mistake after they saw the consequences on their children and at work they where trying to convince others to abandon the divorce procedure. This was an irony of life.Preoteasa Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05996489147504336535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-57837551904799944332016-01-12T08:17:20.282-08:002016-01-12T08:17:20.282-08:00And here I don't even mean the 19th century re...And here I don't even mean the 19th century reformers as they probably had good intentions; society was changing and some reforms were probably needed. I very specifically meant the campaign unleashed in the late 1960s-1970s. Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-68152527907435393092016-01-12T08:14:15.027-08:002016-01-12T08:14:15.027-08:00Alexandra, when I said "special place in Hell...Alexandra, when I said "special place in Hell" I meant those who started this campaign of destroying traditional marriage in the West. While I still think abandoning your spouse without a good reason is despicable, still as you say, many people simply don't know what they are doing. However, it's certainly not true about those who deliberately used propaganda and changed the laws to destroy the one thing which made us strong. The attack on the Western marriage was and is the attack on the Western civilisation itself. Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-90016041528307994832016-01-12T07:40:38.264-08:002016-01-12T07:40:38.264-08:00In order to repent people must understand why it i...In order to repent people must understand why it is such a serious problem if divorce is regarded as a usual decission one can take one day. I know specialists who divorced and repented because their daily job was in service of defending family and children's rights. Repairing things in the aftermath of a divorce is not imposibile. Preoteasa Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05996489147504336535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-15312238093872785182016-01-12T06:08:13.393-08:002016-01-12T06:08:13.393-08:00That is, if they don't repent, of course.That is, if they don't repent, of course. Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-20723750839562737462016-01-12T06:04:57.246-08:002016-01-12T06:04:57.246-08:001970s are when the feminist propaganda was at its ...1970s are when the feminist propaganda was at its strongest (think Stepford Wives) and they really started pushing this whole "housework is oppression, divorce is liberation" nonsense. I sincerely hope there is special place in Hell for those people.Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-14723089533090944932016-01-12T04:47:35.643-08:002016-01-12T04:47:35.643-08:00Nothing should be taken for granted. Nothing can b...Nothing should be taken for granted. Nothing can be achieved without an effort. Divorce is something so terrible. I recently watched the old movie Kramer vs. Kramer. Housewife leaves child and husband and after she gets employment she wins the custody and everybody is happy. The lawyers ask her if she wanted to work after getting married and the conclusion is her stupid husband insisted that she should stay at home and he was guilty. This happened in 79. I had seen this movie years ago but I wanted to watch it again from the perspective of modern laws. Homemaking is again a sort of crime in the eyes of society that traumatizes popor mothers and feminism saves mothers from unhappy marriages. Mrs Kramer should have fought for her marriage and her son would have lived in a natural environment with father and mother.Preoteasa Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05996489147504336535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-1264935762616300512016-01-12T00:28:13.714-08:002016-01-12T00:28:13.714-08:00As someone said, "we did contemplate murder a...As someone said, "we did contemplate murder at times, but divorce...never!!!" :)<br /><br />Every marriage has problems, the way you deal with them makes all the difference, I guess. Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-51884886363677825182016-01-11T21:00:08.116-08:002016-01-11T21:00:08.116-08:00My wife and I have been married for more than 30 y...My wife and I have been married for more than 30 years and even after all this time, we still enjoy each other's company. We had screaming matches to be sure, and the make-up sex afterwards was fabulous, but we never crossed that line to comtemplating a life without each other.Omega mannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-34756616733114811122016-01-11T07:20:45.905-08:002016-01-11T07:20:45.905-08:00To clarify my position, I'm against no-fault d...To clarify my position, I'm against no-fault divorce. All divorce should be fault-based, with fault being proved in court. There could be a discussion on what constitutes fault, whether it's strictly Biblical definition or more liberal mid 20th century "Four A's". BTW, refusing sex to your spouse has been grounds for divorce since at least 19th century (remember Gone With The Wind?)Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-47459535155183006972016-01-11T07:07:16.016-08:002016-01-11T07:07:16.016-08:00Adultery or abandonment (by an unbelieving spouse)...Adultery or abandonment (by an unbelieving spouse). I'd like to add that legality and morality aren't always the same. While I think that divorce should be possible for the reasons above, I don't think it's always moral to do it. in fact, it should be the last resort, plus the party desiring divorce should be able to prove in court that they have grounds for it, while the other spouse should be able to contest it. <br /><br />Sannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124283361844607678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139017677124620997.post-58032128036253422252016-01-11T06:48:16.575-08:002016-01-11T06:48:16.575-08:00Interesting post. Biblically speaking, adultery is...Interesting post. Biblically speaking, adultery is the only grounds for divorce. Even there, if the offending party repents, a marriage is certainly worth striving for. Divorce is really like 2 sheets of paper glued together and then ripped apart again. There is no clean rip. Mariettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12421484144455924614noreply@blogger.com